From Military Roots to Mind Mastery: Unveiling Leadership and Personal Transformation with Ben Price 

Discover how a military background, including interviewing a suicide bomber, shaped Ben Price’s approach to mental mastery, leadership, and coaching. This episode explores the importance of mindset, identity, and authentic relationships in personal and business success. 

In this episode: 

  • Ben Price’s unique journey from military intelligence to coaching leadership 
  • Insights into brainwashing, identity, and mental resilience 
  • The power of mastering the six inches between your ears 
  • The impact of mindset on business decisions and team dynamics 
  • The significance of wilderness retreats for leadership development 
  • Building authentic relationships through vulnerability and shared experiences 
  • How regulation of the nervous system enhances leadership capabilities 
  • The value of collaboration and integrity in coaching and business growth 

Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction to Ben Price’s journey from military to coaching 
00:21 – The transition from military intelligence to personal development 
00:38 – Interviewing a suicide bomber and understanding brainwashing 
01:13 – Reflection on military training and identity stripping 
01:42 – How fitness and mindset are interconnected 
02:13 – The influence of identity on lasting change 
02:45 – Helping leaders master their mindset for better decision-making 
03:09 – An example of working with high-level business leaders 
03:57 – Leaders at the billion-pound level and emotional immaturity 
04:21 – The importance of mindset in leadership and business success 
04:43 – The challenge of changing ingrained beliefs and ego 
05:20 – We attach to our identities and how to unpick them 
05:37 – Trusting external sources versus developing internal confidence 
06:14 – Ben’s wilderness leadership retreats and their benefits 
06:44 – Creating a safe space for men to share and connect 
07:14 – Building trust and close relationships through shared challenges 
07:43 – The detox from technology and politics in nature-based experiences 
07:51 – The value of disconnecting to access authentic conversations 
08:50 – Sharing personal challenges to overcome them and grow 
09:02 – The influence of personal lives on business performance 
09:20 – Leaders’ tendency to feel isolated and the need for support 
09:58 – The importance of emotional regulation and leadership presence 
10:25 – Business tactics vs. leadership mastery at all levels 
10:44 – The role of nervous system regulation in effective leadership 
11:13 – The benefits of external coaching and collaborative relationships 
11:48 – Moving beyond traditional coaching models to shared growth 
12:18 – Building authentic collaborations based on shared impact 
12:43 – The pitfalls of superficial sales practices in personal development 
13:17 – The importance of skin-in-the-game and authentic products 
13:38 – Who Ben looks to work with: committed changemakers 
14:06 – Types of collaborations Ben is interested in 
14:16 – Closing thoughts and how to connect with Ben 

 
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Ben spent eight years in the British Army Intelligence Corps and deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan, working alongside special forces and the Gurkhas. In Helmand Province, he sat across from a man who had agreed to die. A suicide bomber. That conversation took fifteen years to fully understand. The bomber had been brainwashed. Handed a story about who he was before he was old enough to question it, he lived into it without a second thought. Ben eventually realised he had done exactly the same thing. Not with ideology. With ambition. He had been handed a story about success built around money, status, and the appearance of having it together, and he had worn the mask without ever knowing he was wearing it. He built the business, the bank account, the image. And at 2am, with nothing left to distract him, he found himself asking the only question that actually mattered: is this it? Is this really what I want? Is there something wrong with me? By 35, he had lived through a marriage collapse, business failure, poor health, burnout, overwhelm and depression. He hid all of it the way a good soldier does: still performing, still functioning, completely hollow and numb underneath. He read the books, attended the events, hired the coaches. Spent well over £100,000 on personal development, understood every framework, and found that none of it touched the thing underneath. He had been brainwashed a second time, this time by the personal development industry, shamed into believing that he was the problem rather than the methodology. Then his son was born. He looked at that boy and knew he could not pass on the dread, the anxiety, the grumpiness and the sadness he was carrying. It was around this time that he met a real man. A man who spoke and held himself with genuine, unapologetic love, joy and authenticity. Under that man's guidance, Ben was initiated, genuinely, not in the soft performative sense the word gets used today. He returned to himself as the unapologetic, mature, fully masculine man and leader he had always had the capacity to be: the man his family, his business and his community had been waiting for. That experience shaped the Kingmaker Initiation, a year-long rite of passage for founders, leaders and fathers. Built for men who are exceptional by every external measure and exhausted by every internal one. Men who have built a life that looks right from the outside and feels hollow on the inside. Men who want to build a life they genuinely love. Ben helps ambitious, creative CEOs, founders and fathers win the war in their own minds and discover the truest, most authentic, loving and powerful version of themselves, in business and at home. He is a private advisor and the founder of a community of highly ambitious men committed to living with full presence and unapologetic authenticity. He is a partner and a father to two boys. He is here to live a life of love and joy, raise capable sons, and help other men do the same.

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